I’ve been bombarded with questions of concern from people who have read my recent blogs on desperation.
First, let me thank you. You did exactly what I hope all people will do when they observe a friend or loved one acting out of character. You inquired to see if I was okay. Talking about desperation was definitely out of character for me so I can see why some got concerned. Desperation is not I subject I normally discuss. Sometimes people will drop hints about depression or desperation. If they’re lucky enough, they will have friends and family who pick up on those hints and take action before the situation gets any worse.
Secondly, let me reassure you that I am fine. I’m not feeling desperate, nor am I depressed. I wrote about desperation because of the two terror events that occurred early in the morning of New Year’s Day. Thinking about how desperate those two men must have been feeling, I felt a need to discuss the subject because, like it or not, desperation can occur to anyone at any time and especially to those who are already struggling with health issues.
My medications are working well and I’ve not experienced any unusual difficulties. There are times when I get a little down, but I challenge myself to quickly get back up. I know that staying down for too long is not an option.
So, thanks for all your concern, prayers and well-wishes. I’m doing just fine, but again, thank you for checking on me. It means a great deal when you have people who genuinely care.
When I write about tough subjects, please know that I’m doing so in my attempt to help others and not to provide hidden clues about my mental well-being. If I get down, my family will recognize it immediately. They’ll know it before I even have a chance to write about it. And, I hope they will always do exactly what I’ve taught my grandson to do when I get to teasing him too much. Say, “Pappy, knock it off!”
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My husband has been diagnosed with MG . They are talking about a feeding tube. Is this common?
I’m sorry to hear about your husband. Very little about Myasthenia Gravis is common. While such things as drooping eyelids and such are indicative of the disease and typically found in patients, the way MG affects different muscles is unique. I assume the doctors have determined a feeding tube is necessary because your husband has difficulty swallowing. Food going down “the wrong pipe” can be quite dangerous. I had trouble swallowing and frequently choked on food, especially liquids. I went through a swallowing study and they taught me how to swallow so the epiglottis closes properly. Instead of tipping my head back while swallowing liquids, they taught me to fill my mouth with the liquid and then tip my head down before swallowing. This properly aligns the epiglottis and has done wonders for me. I would talk to the doctors and ask if the feeding tube is temporary. I would also inquire about any techniques that could be used to avoid having a feeding tube. I wish I had an answer that would help your husband and solve your problem, but inquiring about options may be a good start. Please keep me posted. Also, please feel free to reach out at any time. You don’t have to go through this alone. As a family member, you’re going to have questions and perhaps someone who reads my blogs will be able to help. If you don’t mind, I will include your husband’s dilemma in one of my future blogs and see if any of my readers can provide any additional tips. Your name won’t be used, just the question that you need answered. Together we are #MGStrong. Greg
My husband has been diagnosed with MG . They are talking about a feeding tube. Is this common?